Dear all…THIS IS FOR ALL…
Scientific study of mind, it’s functions and behaviours of individuals is Psychology!!
Every individual has his or her own life experiences, beliefs, personality traits, knowledge, likes, dislikes, skill sets, passions, goals, definitions of life, living and success. All these make a human body into a human resource of usefulness. All these continuously change too and therefore, we are complex organisms!!
If these are HEALTH ENHANCING, then he or she is peaceful, happy, healthy, contented and fulfilled!!
When we related ourselves to others around, we form relationships. We form patterned network of relationships with many. All the above Pandora’s Box of ours interacts with the Pandora’s Box of others. If these interactions are matching, adaptable and health enhancing then enduring and health enhancing relationships are formed. It leads to synergistic effect and self-actualisation of people concerned. The active dynamism lasts only till the continued new energy flows, needs, wants and expectations are met!!
Like minded people form groups with interactions of invididuals within. Different groups also interact with each other!!
When people form groups we form societies, social systems (marriage, family etc) and social institutions…join together for a common purpose. Scientific study of development, structure and functioning of groups of people…ie collective minds, their functions, their behaviours, is Sociology!!
Every one is associated with many social systems at the same time with different roles and statuses. This forms a complex life and living with multiple Pandora’s Box mixed in one. We are required to display varieties of emotions. This is stressful. Every one is not able to play all the roles healthily. It is impossible to satisfy every one in this complex Universe of Socialisation.
The crux is…
1. If the Pandora’s Box of an individual is health enhancing then the quality of life and living of the individual are good!!
2. If the Pandora’s Box of two people match then the quality of life of their collective living is good!!
3. The Pandora’s Box of people are bound to differ. Importance given to various elements of the box by each person also differs. So, if they understand this and pledge to care and support each other then quality of relationships, life and living become good!!
4. If the Pandora’s Box of a group of people in a family or team or group or community or society is health enhancing then the culture, quality of life and living of individuals and the collective, becomes good!!
5. If the societies understand, accept the differences, and agree to care and support each other then harmony prevails, culture and quality of life and living of the village or city or state or a country or world is good!!
6. The culture, quality of life and living of individuals and societies depend upon how many elements in the individual and collective Pandora’s Box are health enhancing and how many are health compromising!!
7. So, the key words are…HEALTH ENHANCING…HEALTH COMPROMISING…ADAPTABILITY…ACCEPTING…
8. Intention to live harmoniously within us and with others should be there within individuals, between individuals and between groups!!
9. Else, individuals become corpse, families, communities, societies and world become mortuary and villages, towns, cities, states, countries and earth become grave yards!!
Peacefully yours…Rams…Psychologist!!
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