Tuesday, 15 January 2013

should we listen to those who drive us into emotions?






hai friends...how are you?:) happy

did you try singing?:) happy...How did you feel?...did you feel the change?

as i said earlier, all around the world, most of the songs are expression of 'emotions'...happiness...or sadness...so, we have to select a simple song...simple emotions...and sing it 'emotionally' with 'involvement'...you will find the new experience in you with the big list i listed!...otherwise you will land up in reading a text, and not singing!!:) happy

i am sure you would have laughed your heart out listening to the 'ravusu rams-the robot!':) happy...also if you carefully noticed it even contained a simple lesson on 1. basic elements of a humanoid robot 2. comparison between the human body systems and the body of a humanoid robot...let us see what he says in the days to come!:) happy

today is the birthday of a great poet of the country...maha kavi bharathi!...a great poet i admire...there is no tamilian whose life has not been touched by bharathi!!...of course, he has touched my life too!!:) happy...his poems have become a 'life-carver' for many including me!...in the days to come we will also see his poems and how he was a patriot, freedom fighter, fought for liberation of women, a visionary for india - for its growth, national integration and many other facets of our culture etc...he was the first writer to make cartoons in tamil mags...(may be in the country too)...don't worry...they will not be boring...i will make it hilarious in my usual way!:) happy

some of his songs are here...great songs!...you can type the following in youtube and view the songs...
1. nirpathuvey nadappathuvey parappathuvey...movie bharathi...http://youtu.be/YVMkMlxOD9Y
2. ninnai saranadainthen...http://youtu.be/0jxdt2xCSjo...http://youtu.be/ZbSTGsNaEQM
3. chinnanchiru kiliye kannamma...
4. sinthu nathiyin isai...movie kai kodutha theivam...http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AKLzxSGhVyw&feature=share&list=PLCC9DFC0ABEFE8676
5. kaakkai siraginile...http://youtu.be/m0jdtDX43-M
6. kaani nilam vendum...http://youtu.be/YOpxXo6Yb6A
7. chinnanchiru kiliye kannammaa...http://youtu.be/bjsM64B6wAU

whenever i went abroad (russia, indonesia etc) or when ever i attended navy parties in india, when i was invited to sing a song, i only sang 'sinthu nathiyim isai song...a great visionary song!...

i hope my mail on 'the two Ps in our career' was useful...if you become restless thinking "woff! he just mentioned about it and ran off!...how to make a good performance....how to improve the potential...oh god!...time is running out!...i want to become the CEO of Cognizant tomorrow!!', don't worry...we will see all about the performance, potential and hundred more such things in the days to come...if any one wants to become CEO so fast, then it is like a wanting a baby in just 03 months...also you will land up adding qualifications like NIDDM, HT, CVD etc!!

but certainly nothing on spirituality, god etc...:) happy...as there are enough people around us to confuse with big words and emotional lectures...

my opinion is, 'we should never listen to people who drive us to emotional state!'...e.g politicians, spiritual people etc...most of the politicians give emotional speeches and drive the people to get in to behaviours without thinking...some spiritual people also use 'convince or confuse' technique, use some music or songs or emotional speech technique or 'god technolgoy':) happy, push us into an emotional state and make us follow what they say...

when we become emotional (highly happy or sad or angry or spiritual moods), our brain stops thinking...so what ever we do may not be out of a thinking of logic or reality...so, it may not be right...it may be right for others...but not for us...

so, listen to those who do not drive you emotionally...who make you think and take your own decisions in your life...they are the right people!!!

sometimes parents also use this technique of talking emotionally and putting you in to behaviours which you are not convinced off...during such circumstances, just listen...do not get driven into emotions...you request for some time for taking the decision...put it off...cool down...take a decision the next day...in a cool, calm mood...when you can think logically and in reality....

parents also should avoid pushing the children to emotional states and making them to follow 'their' decisions...in such situations the children might take your decisions...but later they will break it and run off...or cry withing themselves without others knowing it...then the parents will land up in trouble within themselves...

if parents or children follow the 'strategy' technique ('let me agree now and later change') then also either of them or both will land up in trouble...

follow the 'discussion' procedure so that some mutually agreed decision is taken...even if it takes time...even if it takes more sittings to discuss the issue...

if parents initiate the discussion then they should only ask questions and make the children to think and answer...if children initiate the issue then children should ask questions and parents to think and answer...neither of them should plan strategies...no one to push their views...

if you feel shy, do not know how to start, you can all sit and watch programs like 'neeya naana' (vijay tv) where some topic is taken and discussed by two teams...you also discuss it...like this we can slowly start and go on to our topic of interest...

ok guys and gals...keep rocking...see you tomorrow...:-h wave

rams

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