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for a long time i have not typed anything on music and songs...here it is...

during my school days, whenever a visitor came home i used to feel happy because i will get the left overs of savories and the peel of the banana*:P tongue...(useless guys, don't leave the sweet*:-B nerd*:) happy). so whenever a visitor came, my mother sent me to get one sweet, little savories and one banana. I used to get a banana called as 'nadan', as this banana has thick skin and we can peel a part of edible part of it, which the visitor does not eat. So, after he or she leaves i can eat that.

one day, a visitor came. I was sent to get the eatables. I went in search of nadan, it was not a season, had to struggle to get, and so got delayed. Also i heard a beautiful song in that shop and got frozen. Mesmerized!!!...got locked up with that song!!!...I stood there and listened to that entire song and came back to find the visitor already gone!*:( sad...my mom was like a red hot valcano!!!...Should i tell you that i got nicely beaten up by her??*:(( crying...but while getting beaten the sweet, banana and savories were smiling at me!*:D big grin...so, it did not pain me*=)) rolling on the floor. Look at this!!...both of us got engrossed in the beating and eatables, that we forgot the song!!!*:) happy

the youtube link of that song is attached here....http://youtu.be/GGekCjufNWY...
hope you also like it!!*:) happy

if you don't like it, then it was a calm, drizzly after noon when i heard the song...with the song coming out of a good music system...and because of this probably i liked it!!*:) happy...anyway, i like it!

enough of eatables, kicks, song...

now, coming to the issue of the day...*:) happy

I agree that all of us are very pious. We do all that god tells us to do. We live as per the advice or the preaching of our guru. We are god fearing. We live as per the way told in our holy books. We know that god will punish us if we do wrong things. We know that we are good and should do only good things.

If this is true then which god or guru or holy book(s) has told us to smoke, booze, cheat, rape, torture children and women, treat people in-equally based on gender, caste, religion etc, feel greedy of everything (wealth) and everyone (people), feel jealousy, have urges for pleasure, kill other living organisms for pleasure and taste, use addictive chemicals, damage the environment, be a parasite on others eating their wealth, do robbery, tell lies (in occasions where it will not do any good), amass wealth doing all wrong things, do all frauds, abuse our body and mind, exploit others, do / think negative and wrong things, have destructive attitude and have negative perceptions, feelings and emotions (anger, frustration, fear, sad, depressive etc)…woff…the list goes on and on like this…how did we invent sooooo many negative behaviours yaar!!!!!...ammmmaaazing!...we are the inventors of all negativities in the world.

Can any one name any negativity that nature or other living or non living beings have created?...one?...at least one negativity?

if we list positive emotions / positivity and negative emotions / negativity, we will find negatives are more than the positives...i.e we know more negatives than positives...all these are read, experienced and felt by us. The time spent by us in negativities is much more than the positives.

which god or guru or holy book has taught all these?...which guru or god or holy book has told us to have all these and live with all these behaviours?

We fear god and guru thinking that they will punish us if we do any wrong...Will god not punish us for all these?

The famous tamil saint and poet Thiruvalluvar says saints or gurus or rishis do not have all the above…those who free themselves from all the above will reach saint hood…will become guru or god...it does not mean they cannot live a family life…all famous saints of the past have lived family life…it only means that you will live a happy, healthy, noble and successful life. You will be blessed by god. You will be radiating happiness and peace.

Does your guru possess all these?...is he free from all these behaviours?

Is politics free from all these negatives?...is your guru free from politics?

gurus are not created by god...they become gurus by virtue of their noble qualities...why not you be one?...one need not live in an ashram...he or she can even work in an IT company and lead such a life!!!

we have invented many negative behaviours and few positive behaviours. Nature has given us so many things in front of us to form positive behaviors...do we have time to observe and be with the nature to appreciate and form the positive behaviours? 

why should we come out of the negatives?...let us see...

take a paper...come on yaaarr...take a paper. Good!!..now write your age there. Have you written?..good!...now, you write how many years more you will live on this earth in your opinion. Don't hesitate baby. You know your state of health. Just write...ok...here it is...

if you think you will live for 60 more years, then you will live for only 21,900 days! After that you are no more here. You are sand!!...look at your body once...please...பாரேன்...எனக்காச்சும் ஒரு தடவை பாரேன்!...this body will vanish after that.

if it is 50 years then only 18,250 days!
if 40 years then only 14,600 days!
if 30 years then only 10,950 days!
if 20 years then only 7300 days!
if 10 years then only 3650 days!
if 5 years then only 1825 days!

it might appear to be a big number, but imagine, it appears it was yesterday we celebrated christmas and new year, but nearly 60 days have gone! it appears we joined the college yesterday and 1460 days (4 years) have gone!...it appears we were children yesterday but about 8000+ days have gone. So, time flies.

If our life is sooo short then what is the point in worrying or having all the negative behaviours listed above and screwing up our lives and happiness?...and messing up others' lives too!!!

all of us run behind wealth almost each and every second...tell me, all those who have got crores, hundreds and thosands of crores, do they enjoy all that money?...all the scandalous people, do they enjoy all that wealth?...think about the fear and bad name they have. How many respect a politician or a corrupt for his nobleness?...many respect only out of fear. Fear of nuisance value they have. Pleasant and tasty respect comes out of true love we have. Why to talk about others?

just think about the wealth you have. Do you enjoy all the wealth?...we have enough problems on the body that we are not able to enjoy. We use it only to show power, authority, get fame etc and make others fear or respect us for that. Tell me, who has the real respect and power?...a Zamindar or a village school headmaster?...noble living and the respect we get out of our personality traits and wisdom only will give the real respect and fame. When we die do we take all these wealth?...children will make their living the way you made your living. So, why to make them lazy with our wealth?...most of the children with lots of maternal or paternal wealth are only spoiled children!

the crux is we don't need so much of wealth and our life is very short. So, let us come out of these negatives (negative photos are black and white like ghosts!) and become positives...the colourful lively photos!!!...so that we are always smiling...radiating happiness...attractive...beautiful or handsome...and obviously become healthy and successful too!

hope you enjoyed this mail!!!*:) happy

keep rocking guys and gals!...byeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee....*:-h wave

rams