Hai boys and girls!
(as all from 'infants' to 'thathhaa pattees' are boys and girls for me!
) ("vanthuttaandaaa, marupadiyum!...the 'mokkai' boss with 'sappai' matter!!
)
just ask any indian around ‘what is romance?’…I am sure he or she will say ‘a boy and a girl or a husband and wife being intimate verbally or physically’! ("yendaa, unakku ithai vittaa vera topic ke kidaikkaathaadaa!"...."dei machhaan, yellaa matter um ithuley thaaney vanthu nikkuthu, for our boys and girls!")
Our dirty, flesh minded and narrow minded culture teaches only this!...as long we attach ourselves for happiness and pleasure with human beings without expectations, possessiveness and a mentality of ‘how can I keep the other person happy’ without thinking about ‘what is he or she supposed to give me as wife, lover, husband, father, mother, sister, brother, uncle etc’, then we can be happy…but does our culture teach this?...with ship loads of expectations, demands, dictates and unlimited possessiveness our culture has taught us, how can we be happy and healthy inside the homes and with our relationships?
(as all from 'infants' to 'thathhaa pattees' are boys and girls for me!) ("vanthuttaandaaa, marupadiyum!...the 'mokkai' boss with 'sappai' matter!!)just ask any indian around ‘what is romance?’…I am sure he or she will say ‘a boy and a girl or a husband and wife being intimate verbally or physically’! ("yendaa, unakku ithai vittaa vera topic ke kidaikkaathaadaa!"...."dei machhaan, yellaa matter um ithuley thaaney vanthu nikkuthu, for our boys and girls!")
Our dirty, flesh minded and narrow minded culture teaches only this!...as long we attach ourselves for happiness and pleasure with human beings without expectations, possessiveness and a mentality of ‘how can I keep the other person happy’ without thinking about ‘what is he or she supposed to give me as wife, lover, husband, father, mother, sister, brother, uncle etc’, then we can be happy…but does our culture teach this?...with ship loads of expectations, demands, dictates and unlimited possessiveness our culture has taught us, how can we be happy and healthy inside the homes and with our relationships?
More we romance with nature and other organisms in nature, we will never get let down and the true happiness is assured. They never say 'i don't have time!'...'i don't have the mood for romance!'...'i am busy!' etc...just go to a dog for a play and see if it ever says no! (of course, not those two minutes when it is eating!)...
Today morning, it was a pleasant weather, cloudy, little chilly…i went up to the terrace…watched the sky…lots of low altitude rainy clouds were showing ‘tata’ and going…of course, some passing by birds gave flying kisses too!...can you see my red cheeks?
...sky was so pleasant…I could see the complete line of western ghat hills covered with the clouds…has any one staying in PSG Tech hostel or staying near there has seen this sky line of western ghats???....it was such a romantic scene I am sure you will all say ‘nutty guy!’ he is!...came down and asked my wife…what do you see from our terrace?...she said ‘bath rooms of neighbours!’ (irritation)…when I said ‘look up little baby!’…she said ‘multistoried buildings!’…when I said ‘little more up!’ she got angry and said ‘what is there? Only sky! Stupid!’…there was no romance or love or life in it!
Today morning, it was a pleasant weather, cloudy, little chilly…i went up to the terrace…watched the sky…lots of low altitude rainy clouds were showing ‘tata’ and going…of course, some passing by birds gave flying kisses too!...can you see my red cheeks?
...sky was so pleasant…I could see the complete line of western ghat hills covered with the clouds…has any one staying in PSG Tech hostel or staying near there has seen this sky line of western ghats???....it was such a romantic scene I am sure you will all say ‘nutty guy!’ he is!...came down and asked my wife…what do you see from our terrace?...she said ‘bath rooms of neighbours!’ (irritation)…when I said ‘look up little baby!’…she said ‘multistoried buildings!’…when I said ‘little more up!’ she got angry and said ‘what is there? Only sky! Stupid!’…there was no romance or love or life in it!
‘did you ever see the beautiful sky line of western ghats?’…she said ‘I don’t see anything!’ and went off! (I am only scared that tomorrow if she goes up and spots marudhamalai murugan temple from our terrace on the western ghats she will start breaking coconuts and performing pooja from the terrace!!!...and I will go nuts ‘porukking’ the coconuts!!!)
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So, we need to learn romancing the nature…and if music is added?...whavvv…what a great feeling!...
While romancing the nature, my player played this song…what a feeling!
and the next song was…
you know the first hindi words my daughter uttered…I just took her to a valley at Goa on a rainy day for a great view…two and half year old girl…she said ‘kitna achhaa hei!’…that was the first time I knew that she knew not only hindi but she is a romantic girl in the real sense!
The crux is any one who knows how to romance with self, nature, knowledge, wisdom, living organisms, art forms can never be unhappy, unhealthy and not successful!
keep romancing boys and girls!
bye
rams
keep romancing boys and girls!
bye
rams
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