hai all...as per abraham maslow all human beings have five levels of
needs...(of course, there is a sixth one too...which most of the people
in the world do not know...self-transcendence!!)...they happen one after
the other...after the lower level of needs are met...
Now, in the life of a human being when which level will be met???
It is a question mark!!...for different people different levels will get met at different ages...and we look for all these needs from people, organisations, social systems around. The highest needs are expected from the spouse as there is a body need.
Now, in the life of a human being when which level will be met???
It is a question mark!!...for different people different levels will get met at different ages...and we look for all these needs from people, organisations, social systems around. The highest needs are expected from the spouse as there is a body need.
As two people in relationship are bonded by their needs and
expectations from each other, and both of them can never always dwell in
the same level of need, no one can satisfy other for ever!!
We might like our spouse when the needs are matching and may not like our spouse when the needs are not matching. If we understand this and give the space and reduce our urges then the relationship will remain great on all the threads. Otherwise it will be great only in few threads and not in others.
rams
We might like our spouse when the needs are matching and may not like our spouse when the needs are not matching. If we understand this and give the space and reduce our urges then the relationship will remain great on all the threads. Otherwise it will be great only in few threads and not in others.
rams
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