THIS IS FOR ALL...ESPECIALLY STUDENTS....

Dear all...THIS IS FOR ALL...ESPECIALLY STUDENTS....

Every one lives his/her life. Every one's life is different. Every type of life is different. Every type of personal, family, organisational, married, unmarried, rich, poor, etc type of life has it’s own losses, gains, good, bad, right, wrong, plus and minus. No life is perfect. The aim in life is first to be peaceful and mentally healthy. Next is, to be physically healthy. Peace of mind comes only through perception. Any perception that gives us peace is right. All others are wrong. So, which ever job or marriage or life situation we are, we need to pursue the right perception to be peaceful and healthy!!

Some are educated. Some are not educated. Some get married early. Some get married late. Some take up family centric life. Some take up professional centric life. Every profession demands a particular life style/ way of living and kind of life to remain peaceful and happy. If we don’t pursue that kind of life in our profession then we will land up with losses and suffering.
Some take up safe and secure government jobs. Some take up risky corporate jobs. As said earlier, all these have their own plus and minus. If we take up or pursue or accept such a kind of life, then we should accept the plus and minus also. Therefore, it is better to know the plus and minus of each decision we take (in marriage, profession, life mate etc) to pursue each kind of life or job!!

The decisions should not be based on the fantasy or glamour of the profession or kind of life or way of living. While evaluating it to decide whether it is suitable for us or not, what we have to look at is “what will I do from morning to night in this job?…in this life?…in this marriage?…in this family??”. This is the question we should ask and the answer for this question should be acceptable, comfortable, agreeable and liked by us. If we don’t like or not comfortable, then we should not take up that job…should not accept that kind of life…should not accept that kind of marriage…that kind of family life and living…!!

Many suffer in their job, profession, marriage, organisation, family because they have accepted something that is not comfortable for them…not liked by them…not agreeable to them…They are all in a state of Learned Helplessness!!

It may be due to their life circumstances or by force from parents or others…or their own fantasy choice of decision!!

So, wake up!!

Peacefully yours…Rams…Psychologist!!