hai friends...how are you?
hope you
enjoy the mails
1.
Music : Raga makes the
back bone. When we fit in the lyrics, the fleshy body is formed. When a
good voice is added it gets the blood vessels and nerves and becomes a
beautiful girl or a handsome boy...a machine without its soul!...Some
read the song. Some sing the song. Very few do not read or sing, they
just sprinkle emotions like a drizzle and take away us from ourselves
and give the machine the life, the human touch!...undoubtedly shreya
ghoshal does not read or sing. She just sprinkles emotions like a
drizzle.
When
a drizzle falls on a sleeping guy he will only feel it as a
disturbance. But when it falls on a guy running in hot weather, he
enjoys the pleasantness of
it and feels the heaven. So, we have to be in right mood to feel the
heaven.
so,
meeting mr kailash at mit was certainly a turning point. The definition
of a new form of ragging, i.e getting introduced to a new comer in a
pleasant way. So, me and my team also spread it to the new comers the
next year. Also gave me an opportunity to understand myself, the power
of youth, the meaning of friendship i explained in one mail earlier and
many more, about which we will see in future mails.
now the crux of today's mail...
Let us observe some families...
1.
in some families they switch on the tv in the morning with devotional
and related programmes...the tv remains on...people inside the house do
their chores while watching the
tv...in some families tv watching is the chore function and all other
chores or jobs at home revolve around this...i.e when a good programme
liked by them comes, they will stop the job that they are doing e.g stop
studies and get involved with the tv. There are some more families like
this whose fulcrum point through out the day is 'entertainment'...all
other functions revolve around this. They are ready to sacrifice
anything for their tv programme.
2.
in some families 'travel' is the fulcrum point...the parents who are in
a related industry or get opportunities for travel or if they are more
interested in it, then travel becomes the fulcrum point...the
children and parents sacrifice studies and go for travels.
3.
in some families every one at home get up in the morning and start
their studies...books are spread on their study tables...they have study
rooms...they do all chores while studying or thinking about what they
have read...basically this family's fulcrum point is studies...all other
activities revolve around this.
4.
in some families business is the chore activity...they all the time
think about this...all the members of the family are involved in the
business in some form or the other to different extents. So, business is
the fulcrum point here. Everything else becomes secondary, tertiary etc
for them.
5. for some families music may be the fulcrum point..i.e they will sacrifice their most beloved activity to music
Like
this every family has some fulcrum point or the other. Just think about
your family. To which one you all give more importance at home.
Certainly there may be some issue common, to which all of you surrender
and sacrifice.
Let
us evaluate this issue. Whether it can give a lasting happiness, good
mental and physical health and put all of us at home in the self
actualization path.
there
are families with nothing as important..it just goes on...life goes on
there without any fulcrum point of focus...each individual in the family
lives like 'sithham pokku sivam pokku'...no one knows what he or she is
doing...every one does something in his own way...none of them bother
much about those three things really!
If
you think there is nothing in the family, then why not to start some
thing that will put every one in achieving the three things i keep
writing in the mails.
In the above families i described, you know which family will go where finally!
so, the crux is
1.
let us identify the
chore fulcrum activity of the family. Let it flow from the 'concept of
life' or 'way of life' that you have defined. Then it gets converted
into suitable behaviours to achieve the dream.
2.
if there is nothing, let us form one or two as convenient and enter
into a highway of life and not remain in narrow lanes or pathless roads.
by gals and boys...keep
rocking!
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