hai guys and gals!
love is only once with a person...i.e once you love a person it is impossible to hate...whom you hate is not the person you loved, but another new changed person...in this state also you continue to love the same good old person whom you loved earlier...he is not there now...but is there in your mind internally...you now love him inside you and enjoy in the fantasies and not in reality...
we need to take a paper and paste the pictures of ourselves...when we were at 10 years of age...at 15...at 20.. at 30...at 40...at 50...at 60...etc...we need to write down our likes, dislikes, attitudes, beliefs, value systems, definition of love, relationship etc below that photo...we will find that all these people are not the same...they are different people...even the looks are different...so, what makes a person?...his appearance and his over all personality...his name may be same...religion may be same...but as an individual he has become different...as an individual in a relationship he has become different...once we change, we need to again fall in love with this new person...otherwise we will be loving some one and be living with some one else...or fighting with...
keep rocking!
rams
love is only once with a person...i.e once you love a person it is impossible to hate...whom you hate is not the person you loved, but another new changed person...in this state also you continue to love the same good old person whom you loved earlier...he is not there now...but is there in your mind internally...you now love him inside you and enjoy in the fantasies and not in reality...
we need to take a paper and paste the pictures of ourselves...when we were at 10 years of age...at 15...at 20.. at 30...at 40...at 50...at 60...etc...we need to write down our likes, dislikes, attitudes, beliefs, value systems, definition of love, relationship etc below that photo...we will find that all these people are not the same...they are different people...even the looks are different...so, what makes a person?...his appearance and his over all personality...his name may be same...religion may be same...but as an individual he has become different...as an individual in a relationship he has become different...once we change, we need to again fall in love with this new person...otherwise we will be loving some one and be living with some one else...or fighting with...
keep rocking!
rams
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