Hai all...
from birth to death, cradle to grave, womb to tomb, we all grow, mature and evolve. It is never stagnant. No one can escape from this. The environment (social, physical, legal etc etc) shapes us. At every stage and age we are expected to face developmental challenges that will make us grow to that stage and age, make us get ready to go to the next stage of development, expose ourselves to the next stage of challenges, mature, evolve...and again go to the next stage...this process goes on and on...this is called growing...the issue is...
from birth to death, cradle to grave, womb to tomb, we all grow, mature and evolve. It is never stagnant. No one can escape from this. The environment (social, physical, legal etc etc) shapes us. At every stage and age we are expected to face developmental challenges that will make us grow to that stage and age, make us get ready to go to the next stage of development, expose ourselves to the next stage of challenges, mature, evolve...and again go to the next stage...this process goes on and on...this is called growing...the issue is...
If an organism does not get exposed to the developmental tasks or
challenges...IT DOES NOT GROW...DOES NOT MATURE...DOES NOT EVOLVE...AT
THE RIGHT TIME AND AGE AND STAGE IN LIFE...SO IT BECOMES INCOMPETENT TO
TRAVERSE TO THE NEXT STAGE...woffffffffffffff...our parents did not know
this...our schooling or college educational system does not know
this...there is no structured or planned development of children or
adults here...
we all grow like bushes, shaped here and there by parents, relatives, friends, schools, society, colleges and organisations...and other social systems like marriage, family etc...destiny decides our maturity and evolving...when what happens and when we become complete and noble human beings, we don't know...so we are always deficient...we lack...therefore we land up seeing most of the life events and people as threats, we fear, we shrink, low self esteem, depression, we land up with wrong paths, decisions, land up with social and legal issues...finally feel rejected by people, society, organisations, family etc...
so, exposing children from birth, adequately to the developmental tasks / challenges is a mustttttttttttttttt....which are the tasks to which age?...we will see later...or read text books...good text books...
children exposed to challenges over and above their age leads to personality disorders e.g death of parents, fight and separation of parents, natural calamities, sexual challenges...which again cause ruins to their life and other significant people around them...they need to be treated before marriage, else they will spoil the life of another human being...
when an iron bar is caste, it has to be perfect...if there are defects in it, they can not be rectified...the bar loses its strength and becomes unsuitable for its application...but we can not kill human beings...every one has defect inside...as no one is perfectly, scientifically groomed and developed...but we can always make efforts to remove the defects and create off springs who are perfect to an extent.
so the crux is.....
1. expose children to the developmental tasks and challenges commensurate to their age
2. don't give them an oppurtunity to experience challenges beyond their stage of development
peacefully yours .....rams...
we all grow like bushes, shaped here and there by parents, relatives, friends, schools, society, colleges and organisations...and other social systems like marriage, family etc...destiny decides our maturity and evolving...when what happens and when we become complete and noble human beings, we don't know...so we are always deficient...we lack...therefore we land up seeing most of the life events and people as threats, we fear, we shrink, low self esteem, depression, we land up with wrong paths, decisions, land up with social and legal issues...finally feel rejected by people, society, organisations, family etc...
so, exposing children from birth, adequately to the developmental tasks / challenges is a mustttttttttttttttt....which are the tasks to which age?...we will see later...or read text books...good text books...
children exposed to challenges over and above their age leads to personality disorders e.g death of parents, fight and separation of parents, natural calamities, sexual challenges...which again cause ruins to their life and other significant people around them...they need to be treated before marriage, else they will spoil the life of another human being...
when an iron bar is caste, it has to be perfect...if there are defects in it, they can not be rectified...the bar loses its strength and becomes unsuitable for its application...but we can not kill human beings...every one has defect inside...as no one is perfectly, scientifically groomed and developed...but we can always make efforts to remove the defects and create off springs who are perfect to an extent.
so the crux is.....
1. expose children to the developmental tasks and challenges commensurate to their age
2. don't give them an oppurtunity to experience challenges beyond their stage of development
peacefully yours .....rams...
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