Dear all...THIS IS FOR ALL...
The biggest problem today is 'we have made all social interactions, events, functions, anything and everything as FOOD-CENTRIC'!!...So, slowly the purpose of each event, the social dynamics involved in it, is getting lost and we are only getting obese, diabetic, hypertensive and cardiac patients!!
Marriages or age-attaining functions or any other function at home is focused on food!!
Any guest coming home, we give coffee or sweets or such other health compromising stuff!!
'Let us discuss over a drink yaar!'...'Let us meet over a lunch yaar!'...'Let us meet over a cock-tail yaar!'...whether lovers or friends or relatives or official interactions...all are food centric!!
All parties either personal or family or social are all food centric!!
Our time pass has become eating!!
Ladies spend most of their time in cooking and washing utensils!
The industries related to 'all the stuff that go inside the mouth' is doing all the stunts to put all the crap available on this earth in to the mouth of every one through advertisements and what not!
We have attached status value to many foods that they stand up prominently to add status identity too!!
The life today has become more stressful because we have forgotten to keep the life activities and environment to be automatically stress relieving too!!...When we are more stressed, we feel depressed when we are not able to fulfill the expectations of our own selves and that of others. So, we land up in binge eating!!...to an extent of reaching Bulimia nervosa!!
No wonder we become obese, feel about losing curves and shapes, losing arousal value affecting harmony in married life, appearing older, getting all sorts of life style diseases!!
Only when we come out of this eating disease and other body related urge-diseases, we can really really enjoy the life and find the meaning to it!!...Otherwise we will be only cooking and eating entire life, every where, losing the value of everything!!
Peacefully yours...Rams...Psychologist!!
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