Saturday 19 August 2017

what is the biggest challenge for the youths today??

Dear all...THIS IS FOR ALL...
The biggest challenge for the youth today is not the subjects...not getting jobs in placement...It is keeping their relationships and people in tact!!😂😂😂...This is the bigggggggest stress for them!!
Why they lose people?...why break ups?...why fights, unfriending, blocking?...why relationships do not last even for weeks??...why divorce after marriage?
One needs to understand...especially the boys...that the girls are stressful from all directions. So, if you are the one who can take all their garbage by listening to them calmly or helping them out in the way they want without any expectations, then they are with you. If you also add fuel to the stress fires they have then you are sure to miss them!!
Most of the break-ups are due to fights out of frustrations due to unfulfilled needs, wants and expectations. Every day is not same...every moment is not same...some times the bad days can go on for weeks too...one needs to have patience and go with the flow of mood and interest changes of the other person...accept and adapt to their changes...then relationships last for long!!
So, patience, being cool, being a garbage carrier😂 without any ego, being down-to-earth, being without any expectations, giving time....all these are important to avoid break-ups!!
Peacefully yours...Rams...Psychologist!!

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