Dear all...THIS IS FOR ALL...
Many decades back the girl was just a home maker, looked after parents, in-laws, husband, children, grand children, attended all family functions, took care of relatives and spent her entire life in cooking, washing and cleaning!! All these ladies are there in their sixties and above now!!...They did not and could not think anything beyond the family!!
Two decades back the girls had to work to earn and support the family, as a bread-winner, not to focus on the job but only on family, and were torn in two directions, both at office and home, as nothing changed in expectations at the home front!!..They are in their fifties now at home!!
Now both the above are not possible!!
She has turned out to be an ACHIEVER...PASSION AND ACHIEVEMENT CENTRIC!!...This is how the parents and changing society have driven her to be!!
But the parents and grand parents of yester-years who are in their fifties and sixties now expect everything above...which is not possible with out solid support and help from the husband and oldies!!
Giving up on anything results in loss of peace...and if the lady is not at peace, then no one can have peace at home!!
So, the best thing is to be supporting, caring and encouraging!!
Peacefully yours...Rams...Psychologist!!
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