Dear all...THIS IS FOR ALL...
The worst disease we have is not cancer or AIDS. We have those worst diseases inside all of us...they are...
1. All the time looking at others 'what they are doing?'
2. Keep comparing with others..."see, he has scored more than you!"..."see, he has got better paid job than you!"..."see, he has earned more and richer than you!"..."see, she is already married and having kids!...when are you going to marry and settle down!"
2. Keep comparing with others..."see, he has scored more than you!"..."see, he has got better paid job than you!"..."see, he has earned more and richer than you!"..."see, she is already married and having kids!...when are you going to marry and settle down!"
These diseases only will keep you frustrated, angry, sad, depressed, low self esteem, pull down, increase BP, die every moment of life, and make run towards a virtual vacuum. May not give fulfillment and contentment.
Whereas...if we look at us rather than others...if we take a paper and write down our goals, plans, how we are going to live, our aims etc and work towards that in a planned manner, without looking at others...without comparing with others...surely we will land up in a better position in all angles and dimensions of life than those who look at others and compare with others...and live a contented, fulfilled, achieved, peaceful and happy life too!!
Peacefully yours...rams...Psychologist!!
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