How to keep unity in the family???

Dear all...THIS IS FOR ALL...

All of us have different opinions, beliefs, religion, way of life, rights and wrongs, affinity to languages, true and false. But all of us are part of social systems called family, society, community, village, city, state, country, world...and...and...and...HUMANITY!!

Our life, living, relationships have to be beyond all these. Humanism is above all religions and gods!

We might have difference of opinion with our family members in several issues. But our relationship with them should be beyond all these differences and we should be only source of abundance of love. So, we may be individuals. But we have to integrate with the family. Of course, this should be the learning value of every one in the family. It is the duty of parents to inculcate this culture in the family. Whenever there is a difference of opinion, the parents should peacefully listen, allow the other person to have the individualism and pitch the relationship beyond the difference and keep the family together and teach this to children. LOVE should be unconditional and devotional amongst all family members. We should learn to give space, accept the individualism, understand that giving freedom to be different and being human is more important than everything. Human being is more important that religions and all sorts of differences. LOVE is more important than all the differences. Hate has no room inside the rooms of the home!!

So, we may be individuals, but have to integrate with the family and this should be the culture in the family and every one should understand, respect and follow in the family.

We may be families, but we have to integrate with the society and community. Of course, families may be like individuals, have differences with the community and society. But they have to integrate with the community and society. Of course, the society and community norms also should be such that they accept the differences amongst families and pitch the social and community norms beyond the differences, keeping HUMANISM above all the differences of religion, language etc. LOVE, UNCONDITIONAL LOVE should be above all the differences.

Same way we may be part of communities and society, with all the differences, but we have to integrate with the state, and the state norms should be to accept the differences, but the back bone should be that HUMANISM IS FIRST...LOVE FOR ALL HUMAN BEINGS AND OUR RELATIONSHIPS WITH PEOPLE, COMMUNITIES, SOCIETIES IS ABOVE ALL THE RELIGIONS, CASTE DIFFERENCES, LANGUAGE DIFFERENCES ETC SHOULD BE OUR BACK BONE OF LIFE!!.

The states might have their differences. But have to integrate with the country beyond the differences. The way i explained above. Keeping humanism, human beings, love and our relationships with each other above all the divisive issues.

The countries might have differences. But they have to integrate with the world and earth. World norm should be to accept all countries beyond the differences and keep HUMANISM...UNCONDITIONAL LOVE FOR ALL...INTERPERSONAL AND INTER-COUNTRY RELATIONSHIPS IS ABOVE EVERYTHING!!

There is no point in showing hate for a person while living and visiting his or her house on the occasion of the death of the person. Same way, no point in helping a community or society or state or a country only after they are dead due to conflicts and natural calamities. LOVE should be every day affair. Not after the death!!

This is the way we can keep the social systems called family, society, community, state, country and world together.

Yessssssss...HUMANISM IS AND SHOULD BE ABOVE ALL THE DIFFERENCES...otherwise these social systems made by human beings, NOTE: NOT BY NATURE WHICH CREATED THIS UNIVERSE AND ALL OF US....will collapse and vanish...all of us will die...ha.haa.haaa...if we are not there then how can religions, languages, gods, temples, all such differences can live!!...What are they for??...

What is patriotism?...It is not only for a country. It is for a family. It is for a society. It is for a community. It is for the world.

it is not about the land. It is about the people. What is the point in saving the land after killing the people and the flora and fauna?...Whom is that land for??

So, patriotism is about people. Patriotism is about love. Patriotism is about relationships. People at family, society, community, state, country and world have to be united. Patriotism for human beings should keep the family united, states, countries and world united. Unconditional love should be the means to keep them united.

who are enemies?..Who are evils?...All those against human beings, unity, harmony, love, relationships, in the family, in the society, in the community, in the country, in the world....are the enemies...evils...!!!

So, let us change our perceptions about all the differences that we have, the words such as patriotism etc, and strive to keep the unity in family, society, country and the world.

Who has to do this?

PARENTS...YES...ONLY PARENTS CAN DO THIS...SO, THEY NEED TO UNDERSTAND THE ABOVE AND DO THE NEED FULL!!

Peacefully yours...Rams...Psychologist!!