THIS IS FOR ALL...SPECIALLY YOUNG PARENTS AND FUTURE PARENTS WHO ARE IN COLLEGES NOW AS STUDENTS.

Dear all...THIS IS FOR ALL...SPECIALLY YOUNG PARENTS AND FUTURE PARENTS WHO ARE IN COLLEGES NOW AS STUDENTS...

There are many parents who just give birth to children and the children grow with sunlight and air. As days pass by the cells multiply and therefore all parts get forced to grow and they also grow in appearance!!

There are some parents who spend time with their children for their own ....1. fun times...relaxation times...entertainment...2. to get a feeling of goodness by being with the children...children get some nourishing food too...Here again the children grow without any direction and carving!

There are some parents who are with their children with always anxiety of the future, responsibilities, shouting, controlling, demanding, their definition of love and affection is to buy and give whatever the children want...they give good nourishing food...but still they are narrow minded and groom the children for only the present!!

But the truth is a new born baby now is to be prepared for the society, organisations, type of living, relationships that will exist after about 20+ years!!...So, we need to have a vision of the future with respect to the societies, technologies, organisational climate etc and accordingly groom them, so that they become fit for those.

There are two methods of such a grooming...

1. Grooming them in such a way that they are easily flexible, adaptable, physically-mentally-socially strong, highly resilient to face the changes and challenges as and when they come in their lives and in the environment outside in societies, families and organisations.

2. Grooming them beyond all these, pitching at a high level of understanding of life, technologies, organisational dynamics in socialization, processes and technologies...while making them highly flexible and adaptable...exposing them to the latest always in all domains of life and living...all the changes that are happening around.

The point is...let them not grow with air and sunlight...let us not use them only for our fun, entertainment and relaxation...let us not get anxiety struck and become scared and confused parents and make the grooming hard, stressful and directed towards only the present with all rigidities and sensitivities...making them not-flexible.

Let us carve them for the future as designer babies!!

Peacefully yours...rams....Psychologist!!