Hai all...'I love you!!'...
We will always have four generations...four different perceptions...within the same house...if we have elderly people living with us, in the same family. Even in some families where these 80s are highly educated and traveled a lot, but still they are rigid and have not changed with the changes in culture and other changes around. They even hear the song of 'kochhadaiyaan' where it says those who adapt and change will live and others will die, but just enjoy the music and forget...when did we think and used our brain?...we watch ramayan and mahabarat also for only entertainment!!
We will always have four generations...four different perceptions...within the same house...if we have elderly people living with us, in the same family. Even in some families where these 80s are highly educated and traveled a lot, but still they are rigid and have not changed with the changes in culture and other changes around. They even hear the song of 'kochhadaiyaan' where it says those who adapt and change will live and others will die, but just enjoy the music and forget...when did we think and used our brain?...we watch ramayan and mahabarat also for only entertainment!!
ok, coming to the point, it is IMPOSSIBLE to have peace and happiness
in such family environment unless they at least 'accept the differences'
and move ahead, at least for their dependencies, needs and wants.
For e.g in the same family the 80's can close their ears hearing 'I love you!', can feel dirty, feel odd and uncomfortable. 60s might feel ok with it, though they don't like that entering that house. 40s might feel 'it means 'i like you' only. 20s understand it as 'I agree with you!'...(these days when four teens or early twenties discuss something they say 'i love you!' to just tell the other person that they agree with his views!!)....so, one word or phrase can mean so much depending upon our PERCEPTION. This depends on our MATURITY, ADAPTABILITY, EXPOSURE TO THE WORLD CULTURES, BEING OPEN MINDED, LEVEL OF EVOLVING DURING THE PROCESS OF DEVELOPMENT, LIFE EXPERIENCES AND AGING.
If every one is on the common frame of perception then all is well. Otherwise all in the well!!
peacefully yours....rams....health psychologist.
For e.g in the same family the 80's can close their ears hearing 'I love you!', can feel dirty, feel odd and uncomfortable. 60s might feel ok with it, though they don't like that entering that house. 40s might feel 'it means 'i like you' only. 20s understand it as 'I agree with you!'...(these days when four teens or early twenties discuss something they say 'i love you!' to just tell the other person that they agree with his views!!)....so, one word or phrase can mean so much depending upon our PERCEPTION. This depends on our MATURITY, ADAPTABILITY, EXPOSURE TO THE WORLD CULTURES, BEING OPEN MINDED, LEVEL OF EVOLVING DURING THE PROCESS OF DEVELOPMENT, LIFE EXPERIENCES AND AGING.
If every one is on the common frame of perception then all is well. Otherwise all in the well!!
peacefully yours....rams....health psychologist.
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