Can we live peacefully, happily, healthily with contentment and success automatically if we leave our life and living to the way our forefathers have lived?

dear all...we always define ourselves, our day-to-day living, our life with limitations…putting them in a cage...only the size of the cage is different...that is all....so truly no unlimited freedom...there are always limits of freedom, happiness, pleasures, growth etc ....so we never allow ourselves to grow to our full potential...never allow ourselves to enjoy the unlimited freedom we are blessed with in this universe.....therefore we never grow to our actual and Natural self…

truly we are just a living organism, a part of Nature, like other living organisms around…but we don’t understand that…why????...

because we have formed the social systems with rules and regulations, whereas other living organisms did not…I remember listing out in my blog the invisible backbones of our social systems and our life which clearly bring out that we can never be happy, peaceful, contented, self actualized automatically without our conscious effort or redefining our life…

Especially in this country called India, which is 'historically-divided' by languages, cultures, caste, religions, dressing and eating habits and many many more…but the great Sardar Vallabhai Patel united all of them together, a herculean task, and we are trying to remain together while we try to go back to the old state of divided and separated…

the regional politicians and religious leaders always sensitize the people and stimulate them emotionally on these divisive factors and drive them to fight, separate and cause communal disharmony.

The same regional politicians when become national leaders play the role of dividing and uniting, both, at the same time, so we are always united and divided. So, the life and living in our places is sensational, media lives on selling sensations, no peace, no happiness, fights, disharmony etc.

So, we are missing the basics!!

Unfortunately we read psychology, sociology or any course only to get a job, salary so that we live this wrongly defined life and living. Therefore, the knowledge is not useful to live peacefully and happily.

we miss out the basic thing that Thiruvalluvar said 'nirkka atharkku thaga!'...i.e after you read, the positive things required to be read, without any doubts and confusions, 'live as per that'...so we miss out on this part of 'live as per that'...so our knowledge is of no use...it never fructifies as wisdom to help us in the true sense....

What is the way out?

1. Define your life and living in line with the way Nature has defined so that amidst all this ‘missing-basics’ you live your life peacefully.

2. Live it the way you defined it without worrying about what others will think, of course, without affecting their freedom to live their life.

3. Insulate yourself and your world from the extraneous factors to retain the health, happiness, contentment etc.

4. Have your significant and other relationships based on satisfaction of THEIR Needs and Wants within your free domain of possibilities to meet them while you perceive that as a SERVICE.

peacefully yours....rams...health psychologist...