'don't get married if you are unfit for a traditional married life!'...save your life and the life of others...

Dear all...this post is related to the Marriage…when we analyze the strained marriages, the following thing clearly emerges…

There are many people who are unfit for marriage and married life!!

Some of them are not suitable for the married family system that Indian society thinks about.

Some of them know that they are belonging to these above categories.

Many do not know.

Eventually all these people are forced to marry by their parents (who feel ‘everyone born on earth has to get married’).

This has ruined their life, the spouse’s life and the life of their children and their relationships amongst them and the implication of this in their professional front, on other relationships and on their life as a whole.

Why they are forced?....because the parents think about social stigma for the person and family, marriage of other children in queue, loss of gold-dowry- gifts+money, and other socially acceptable illegal assets, and of course, the last and the least, the feeling that their son or daughter will have no one to look after them in their later years!!!....

the end result is all the initial said materialistic gains will happen and the parents and others will be happy, but the two people concerned will screw and mess up their lives…and that of poor children too!!

Many children who come up with mind issues have this sort of family life behind their issues.

If only the people concerned have the guts to tell their parents ‘how they define their life to be’ then all issues are solved.

save your life and the life of others!!...may be you can sit and calculate the material gains the parents and others will get from your marriage and give them that wealth and money from your salary, so that all are happy and peaceful...

peacefully yours...rams...