Hai all…
Every one born on this earth and will ever born in future will use the word LOVE…we also use this word often…in olden days a sexy word…no parent wanted to hear that…certainly from their children’s mouth…they thought any one who has fallen in love has really fallen in everything in life…lost his value in the society etc…was considered a stigma…they valued only the social relationship of husband-wife…whatever they had between them was termed as love!!
But many also use the word ‘LIKE’…even today in rural areas the girls or boys must be confusing their parents and friends and themselves too with this word ‘LIKE’…so ‘love’ aa…’like’ aa…everyone is put in a spin!!
Many grown ups also do not know…they remain confused what is love and what is like…
Every one born on this earth and will ever born in future will use the word LOVE…we also use this word often…in olden days a sexy word…no parent wanted to hear that…certainly from their children’s mouth…they thought any one who has fallen in love has really fallen in everything in life…lost his value in the society etc…was considered a stigma…they valued only the social relationship of husband-wife…whatever they had between them was termed as love!!
But many also use the word ‘LIKE’…even today in rural areas the girls or boys must be confusing their parents and friends and themselves too with this word ‘LIKE’…so ‘love’ aa…’like’ aa…everyone is put in a spin!!
Many grown ups also do not know…they remain confused what is love and what is like…
Here is the beautiful crisp definition from an unknown girl…Vidhya Ranganathan...
“Like is external and body based. Love is something internal and heart based. To love a person, we don't need a reason. But to like a person, we need a reason. 'if we like a flower, we pluck it, if we love a flower, we water it daily’. If we have love and happiness within us then we love everyone unconditionally. That is the divine state of human being. The purpose of our life in this world is to realize and attain that state”
I think no one can give a better definition than this with clarity!!!....this clears all the doubts which people will ever have!!!...so, loud applause and caps for her with a gun salute!!!!!
So, all our people’s thinking of Love between husband and wife and children is all only LIKE…LIKE…LIKE!!!…because all these are individual based and body based. These are inborn instincts of all living organisms driven by nature. This is NOT called LOVE!!!...the attraction between opposite sexes is not love!!!...that is why in my posts I used to say ‘we call it love’…so, love is not specific to one individual…it has no gender…it not singular…it is plural…may be one step lower than the actual definition we can say that ‘when a person gives happiness to another person and feels happy about it without any conditions can be called as love’….so rightly speaking none of us love any one!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
WE ONLY LIKE PEOPLE!!
Love is the state where we love all…there is no physical attraction here…there is no physical relationship here…there is no ‘one’ individual here…there is no specific reason…there is no negativity here…no possessiveness…no jealous…no devotee sort of obsessive attraction to one person…
LOVE IS GIVING HAPPINESS, PEACE, GOOD PHYSICAL-MENTAL-SOCIAL HEALTH TO ALL UNCONDITIONALLY AND MAKING THEM ENLIGHTENED AND SELF-TRANSCEND…
So, let us grow up from LIKE to LOVE!!!
Lovingly yours...rams...health psychologist...
“Like is external and body based. Love is something internal and heart based. To love a person, we don't need a reason. But to like a person, we need a reason. 'if we like a flower, we pluck it, if we love a flower, we water it daily’. If we have love and happiness within us then we love everyone unconditionally. That is the divine state of human being. The purpose of our life in this world is to realize and attain that state”
I think no one can give a better definition than this with clarity!!!....this clears all the doubts which people will ever have!!!...so, loud applause and caps for her with a gun salute!!!!!
So, all our people’s thinking of Love between husband and wife and children is all only LIKE…LIKE…LIKE!!!…because all these are individual based and body based. These are inborn instincts of all living organisms driven by nature. This is NOT called LOVE!!!...the attraction between opposite sexes is not love!!!...that is why in my posts I used to say ‘we call it love’…so, love is not specific to one individual…it has no gender…it not singular…it is plural…may be one step lower than the actual definition we can say that ‘when a person gives happiness to another person and feels happy about it without any conditions can be called as love’….so rightly speaking none of us love any one!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
WE ONLY LIKE PEOPLE!!
Love is the state where we love all…there is no physical attraction here…there is no physical relationship here…there is no ‘one’ individual here…there is no specific reason…there is no negativity here…no possessiveness…no jealous…no devotee sort of obsessive attraction to one person…
LOVE IS GIVING HAPPINESS, PEACE, GOOD PHYSICAL-MENTAL-SOCIAL HEALTH TO ALL UNCONDITIONALLY AND MAKING THEM ENLIGHTENED AND SELF-TRANSCEND…
So, let us grow up from LIKE to LOVE!!!
Lovingly yours...rams...health psychologist...
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