Hai all...this is for the teenagers and the 40+ young bubbly girls...
Teenagers and the 40+ young girls are the important people in the house who can bring lots of pep up happiness, pleasure and also the world wars and heights of sadness!!
They are not the reason for their behaviours...it is the violent, volcanic, turbulent, tsunamic, tornado of secretions of hormones inside the body which make them like a uncontrollably jumping water tube open at one end and a high pressure water tap connected at the other end...so, it is not the problem with the tube...it is because of the high pressure water flow...we can not stop the growing and aging process...so water pressure can not be closed by wrong means...controlling the tube results only in damage to us!!
both these whirling tubes try perceive each other wrong and try to control each other...without knowing that both of them belong to the same category...one is at the entrance of storm of inharmonious hormone activity and the other one is at the exit of the same...both are at different phases and stages in life...in one the gynaec system wants to mature fast like a bullet and erupt…in the other also the gynaec system is like a wild fire that wants to calm down…one is amazed at the awe of life and body...other one is at the mid life crisis with responsibilities adding fuel to the fire perceiving everyone and everything as wrong and not ok...both under go only the extremes of moods and rarely at the middle balance…
the situation gets worse if one of them or more or all of them at home are of high Intelligent Quotient (IQ) and low Emotional Quotient (EQ) and low Spiritual Quotient (SQ)...usually this is the situation in all High IQ homes...especially at the homes of Indians at US...if one or more of them have high SQ then he or they can moderate the situation...
truly both the 40+ and the teen need only FRIENDS…the first one does not need PARENTS and the second one does not need HUSBAND…so, it is actually the time when the 40+ should feel new borne and age back wards to be a young girl full of fun and frolic…which the adolescent is looking for to match with her moods…as life is a fun and not just responsibilities…and responsibilities are only activities to be enjoyed and not emotions to remain anxiety struck..…
1. Both need to go for run, walks, exercise, gym, yoga together like good young FRIENDS
2. Hug and kiss all the time without any demands, controls, orders and directives
3. Follow the spirituality path of karma, taming the mind, understanding life etc not as a teaching between them…but a learning together
4. Eat more of healthy foods…and sometimes the mouth watering pizzas etc too (truth is yoga will slowly reduce the urge for this without our knowledge and we will unconsciously fall on the tracks!!)
5. And above all sing and dance together singing enjoying the following song…(in the following link play 'En Manathil' song)..the video of the song is also below...in the second link...
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=N8E62awVt_g
the video link is here...
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=spjoIDnoulo
Then home will be a heaven…adolescence will be the age for cherishing and enjoyment…aging will be fun and backwards…we will always remain young, beautiful and handsome…keep rocking guys!!
peacefully yours...rams...health psychologist....
Teenagers and the 40+ young girls are the important people in the house who can bring lots of pep up happiness, pleasure and also the world wars and heights of sadness!!
They are not the reason for their behaviours...it is the violent, volcanic, turbulent, tsunamic, tornado of secretions of hormones inside the body which make them like a uncontrollably jumping water tube open at one end and a high pressure water tap connected at the other end...so, it is not the problem with the tube...it is because of the high pressure water flow...we can not stop the growing and aging process...so water pressure can not be closed by wrong means...controlling the tube results only in damage to us!!
both these whirling tubes try perceive each other wrong and try to control each other...without knowing that both of them belong to the same category...one is at the entrance of storm of inharmonious hormone activity and the other one is at the exit of the same...both are at different phases and stages in life...in one the gynaec system wants to mature fast like a bullet and erupt…in the other also the gynaec system is like a wild fire that wants to calm down…one is amazed at the awe of life and body...other one is at the mid life crisis with responsibilities adding fuel to the fire perceiving everyone and everything as wrong and not ok...both under go only the extremes of moods and rarely at the middle balance…
the situation gets worse if one of them or more or all of them at home are of high Intelligent Quotient (IQ) and low Emotional Quotient (EQ) and low Spiritual Quotient (SQ)...usually this is the situation in all High IQ homes...especially at the homes of Indians at US...if one or more of them have high SQ then he or they can moderate the situation...
truly both the 40+ and the teen need only FRIENDS…the first one does not need PARENTS and the second one does not need HUSBAND…so, it is actually the time when the 40+ should feel new borne and age back wards to be a young girl full of fun and frolic…which the adolescent is looking for to match with her moods…as life is a fun and not just responsibilities…and responsibilities are only activities to be enjoyed and not emotions to remain anxiety struck..…
1. Both need to go for run, walks, exercise, gym, yoga together like good young FRIENDS
2. Hug and kiss all the time without any demands, controls, orders and directives
3. Follow the spirituality path of karma, taming the mind, understanding life etc not as a teaching between them…but a learning together
4. Eat more of healthy foods…and sometimes the mouth watering pizzas etc too (truth is yoga will slowly reduce the urge for this without our knowledge and we will unconsciously fall on the tracks!!)
5. And above all sing and dance together singing enjoying the following song…(in the following link play 'En Manathil' song)..the video of the song is also below...in the second link...
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=N8E62awVt_g
the video link is here...
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=spjoIDnoulo
Then home will be a heaven…adolescence will be the age for cherishing and enjoyment…aging will be fun and backwards…we will always remain young, beautiful and handsome…keep rocking guys!!
peacefully yours...rams...health psychologist....
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