Dear all...THIS IS FOR FUTURE PARENTS AND PRESENT ADULTS...
The concept and our (great) Indian culture of kitchen, cooking, cleaning, washing, house chores, home shopping are the domain of girls and demeaning for boys had kept the boys away from the girl’s heart in the past.
They did not know that these are the doors through which they can enter the heart of a girl and they always tried it on bed but could never succeed entering their heart. Our ‘ego’ centric culture for men with the coveted(??) majestic position and status as ‘Head of family!’, ‘bread winner’ ‘decision maker’ etc only brought head-weight, anger, power and authority on his head and even if love was present, could not be sensed or accepted by the girl properly and fully.
In the present and future way of living where the girl also is equally qualified, intelligent, hard working, ambitious, tired physically and mentally when she comes home, the old concept will miserably fail and such a marriage will 200% fail in no time!!
So, boys...understand that...participating in the above activities is not a drudgery or ‘not-a-man-like-stuff’ etc...it is the most important and true ‘foreplay’ and door steps to enter her heart and body. Compromises and sacrifices in these, though are small, can make a big impact in the understanding between the two, formation of a good bondage, love and affection etc. This is a must especially in the first two years of married relationship. Else good bondage is remote!!
Peacefully and usefully yours...Rams...Health Psychologist!!
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