Dear all....THIS IS FOR ALL PARENTS....
Who are good parents?...GOOD PARENTS are those who
- Prepare and groom their children for the FUTURE ORGANISATIONS, FUTURE WAY OF LIVING, FUTURE SOCIETIES, FUTURE FAMILIES, and FUTURE CONCEPT OF MARRIAGE AND LIVING.
- Make their children totally independent, who can earn all their 'needs' and 'wants' by their own-selves.
- Produce children who are highly adaptable to any food, any place, any culture, any country, any climate, any language, any person, any organisation, any society, any religion, any region, any race, any caste, any technology, and any job.
- Make their children GLOBAL to fit the global educational system, global organisations, global societies, global families, global culture and global living of the future.
- Groom their children as good decision makers, good leaders, good managers, good and responsible human beings not only for themselves-their families but also for the earth.
- Groom their children with good physical-mental and social health practices like meditation, yoga, exercises, eating-sleeping-working and entertainment habits, good value systems.
- Groom their children with good personality traits of accepting people as they are and destiny as it is, with good morals and ethics, with life styles that ensure and endure high IQ, EQ and SQ, high self confidence/self concept/self esteem, stability under any stressful situation in life, ability to meet personal-domestic-organisational-social-environmental-legal-financial challenges of any type and dimension.
- Produce children who can be happy, healthy, contented, peaceful, self actualizing and self transcending all the time under any situation.
BAD PARENTS are those...
- Who still remain in the past, not up-to-date with the world, scared, live a sedentary and redundant life style and force or expect their children to live their type of life.
- Who have a big list of expectations from their children.
- Who map their living and life style on that of their children.
- Who force their children to follow their beliefs, religion, culture, language etc which may not be suitable for the life, place of living, style of living, organisational culture where they work, the society of their children etc.
- Whose priorities are their own emotional sensitivities (of their outdated and redundant culture and relatives which or who have not contributed to the peace, happiness, contentment, good health, growth, self actualisation of their own lives) and not that of happiness of their children in their world of living.
- Who are selfish, obsessed with their children, dependent parasitically on their children for their life, living, happiness, peace, contentment, meaning or purpose of life and living
- Who do not have common sense, situational awareness of their children and presence of mind relevant to the present and future world.
- Who have isolated themselves from the changes that are happening all over the world irrespective of their high education or place of living or economic status.
- Who are autocratic, egoistic, rigid, do not want to change for fear and loss of comforts and safeties and want to rule their children and their lives, caging the life and living of all, without any freedom or growth for any, including themselves.
- Who have shown lots of love and affection for their own happiness and made their children totally dependent on others for decision making, incapable of facing the challenges in organisations-family-society, not employable in organisations, zero language skills, no adaptability to foods-climate-language-cultures, beliefs and other sensitivities of people and blame the children saying ‘you are useless!’, ‘You have grown, but still behaving like a child!’, ‘Can’t you do even this?’ etc.
- Who feel that the children are a burden to them as they have groomed them to be like that.
- Who are dependent on their children for their emotional support, financial support and all such wants and needs of body, mind and social environment.
Peacefully yours....rams....health psychologist.
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