Is there any one called parent(s)?...Is there anything called 'relationships'?...Is there anything called home?

Dear all...i have learnt both Psychology and Sociology...Psychology is all about behaviours of individuals and sociology is all about behaviours of social groups...why i am studying?...because we are all individuals within social groups...at home, in society and in organisations...so learning about individual and groups, by reading TEXT BOOKS which are sources of researched materials, we will know the science of behaviours of individuals and groups in the entire world, it will help us to live and coexist with every one amidst all sorts of differences we have created, to perform better in organisations and society, to be peaceful, happy, healthy and live a life of contentment and fullness at home...

all the text books on these subjects give what is existing and how we have created the world, life and living...how things have evolved in this world and (not on this earth!!...as what has evolved in this world is by our needs but what has evolved on this earth is by Nature)!!...but when i think about what i have studied, what is given in the books, and compare them with what they are supposed to be, as per Nature, then lots of revelations appear in my mind...i.e the differences in the way we have created the world and the way Nature has created the earth with all the living and non living!!...so, i type them here....i don't type what is given in books as they are...but what i feel or have perceived...

here we go...

....another fact...to tell you how we are caged and screwed by our own selves...of course, at the end the 'crux' is also given, as usual...the last para!!

truly we are born in The Nature, Produced by Nature, Through Natural instincts, using natural ingredients, for nature, to be with nature, learn from nature, to coexist with all and everything in nature, as a part of this unlimited and endless nature...

but what has happened?...

we have created something called family and feel we are born inside this cage only for two people as son or daughter with only those in that home as sisters and brothers and the elders as grand parents...which is not the truth!!

we have named the relationships, to bring in limitations in that, in loving and sharing, learning and growing, aging and maturing. The truth is not this. There is nothing known as a relationship in the bible or dictionary of nature and it has actually produced unlimited social interaction in learning, growing, grooming and maturing!!

we have also formed the societies with varieties of cultures, ways of living, differentiating each other wherein the peace, happiness, health, contentment etc have been lost in comparison and believing that ours is the only best...what can be called as individual or collective ego of people, societies, cultures and countries!!

By default we have been branded as Hindus, Muslims, Christians by virtue of our birth to two people and few people around who have certain belief systems, way of living, a book to read and follow, a god to worship and get lost in him/her!!

I have got a question to ask about this....

Does any one become Brahman or hindu or christian or muslim by birth in true sense?...what happens to a person born in a brahman family who eats all types of non-veg, smokes and drinks-and-eats all types of addictive chemicals in liquid or solid or gaseous form?...can he be called as brahmin?...(i know many who are like this)...what happens if that person is cruel, does not have any love and affection, sympathy and caring for others?...can he be called as a brahman just because he is born in a brahman family?...what happens if he hates and is against all the other human beings, against nature, against all those created by other people (buildings or temples or place of learning, or art forms, gardens etc)?...Can a brahman who knows all the vedas, rituals, mantras and such other things typical of a brahman or even practices all those while hating other castes and religions and having one or more or all the other habits and life styles listed above be called as a brahman???...No, is it not??...So, we don't become a brahman just by birth, by the default social status. We become a brahman only by our behaviours, humanness, maturity, knowledge, wisdom, how much of love and affection, happiness, peace and contentment we radiate to others!!!...

i have taken brahman as just an example for explaining and making the understanding easy...it is applicable to all those who are born in families of all other religions and castes or races etc....

First we expect that he should be a human being and then only everything..i.e identities of all these religions and castes.

Who is a human being?...who shows love and affection to all, who does not differentiate others based on their origin of family of birth or country of birth...one who does not hate others and their beliefs....who respects others and their religion...who accepts every one as they are...

ok, now, if a person is a good noble human being, born in a brahman family but also reads bible, quran, follows all the rituals that are in general giving perception of health, peace, humanness, love and affection, contentment, good health to him and to others through him, then can he be called as a braman?...can he be called as a christian?...can he be called as a muslim?....I am sure your answer will be a big NO!!...i agree, he is much more than a brahman...he is much more than a christian...he is much more than a muslim...he is much more than a human being, truly!!

this is what is the creation of nature!!...it has not branded any one with any religion and caste or race or country origin...we have only created the borders of countries...nature has only created the earth without any boundaries and the endless space common for all to enjoy and nurture...so, the creation of borders have not given the freedom that all animals and birds and other living organisms have got and enjoy!!!...so, we have caged us further.

ok, now the question is...

1. is it possible to eradicate and destroy all these created by us?
2. is it possible to make religions, castes, race and all the sentiments related to language, land, region etc to vanish from this world and make it a free earth?
3. is it possible to remove the borders of countries?

No, it is not possible to see a world without social systems, religions, caste, borders of states and countries, social statuses and roles etc at least till the researches reach a level of identifying the origins of ego, possessiveness and greed in our gene structures and eradicate them from their roots so that human beings are born without these. There will be a ray of hope when this happens.

ok, let us not talk about this which will take may be hundreds or thousand of years to happen

or

may be that nature will cause a major 'natural disaster of world level' and the way chennai people realised or many others realise at various parts of the world when they experience a major natural disaster, the people left over in the world will realise and join together to create another world and earth of no borders, no religions, no castes and no such differences and accept THE NATURE as the god and live together as one family, one society, one community, one country, one continent, one world and one earth!!!

till then what should we do...how to live...

throw away all the religions, caste, racial, language based sentiments, the people who talk about all these irrespective of who they are, what it is...read all the books whether spiritual or holy or philosophical available all over the world...read nature...set your own life style as per that learning and let it not be called as any religion...groom the children also to follow such life style which they form after acquiring all the knowledge and wisdom from nature.
Let the religion, caste and mother tongue be only on papers, as we can not avoid that. But no one can stop us in being a good human being or better than that, the way Nature has produced us at the time of birth, and in early infant and childhood, before we got spoiled by the people and society around us, in Nirvana state of holiness, mind, godly, cute, innocence radiating happiness and peace to all!!

peacefully yours...rams...health psychologist and health sociologist...