What is required to keep every one and all relationships happy, healthy, peaceful while we also attain these three??

Dear all...THIS POST IS FOR ALL...though i have used 'he', it is not a gender specific post...he can be replaced with 'she' also...

When a person is in a perfect Null state of balance with respect to his hormonal and neurotransmitter secretions, his body organs just function to keep him alive and does not drive for any urges of any kind related to body or mind. So, he does not require anything or any one. He has no needs from any one. He has no need from himself too. He has no expectations from anyone. So, he is in a state to enjoy anything and everything under the sky. He radiates happiness, peace, contentment and divine. He has no greed or jealous or possessiveness or hate or harm. He only has love.

He is in his consciousness but might appear to be eccentric as he will talk all philosophical, will express only his feelings, what he felt etc...'not able to explain to the comprehension and conscious understanding of others' type of a feeling we might get from his talks, behaviours, emotions and thinking.He could be seen merged with The Nature, The god! What he talks might appear not gelling with the social norms but that is the truth and that is how nature has created the human beings and other living organisms.
Social norms and social systems have been created by us against nature.

A person in that state will experience happiness, great health, peace, contentment etc for his own self. So, those who love him, his emotions, his thinking, his behaviours without any needs and expectations from him will experience all those experienced by him when they have relationship with him at that level. I.e true love.

Those with needs and expectations from him can not experience all those five things from him. He is fit for family life where needs and expectations do not exist. He can deliver the responsibilities in a family social system, but may not be able to fulfill the needs and expectations of others in a traditionally defined manner. He is not fit for a possessive and obsessive love. He is not fit for a usual romantic love. He is fit for a spiritual romantic love. So, he may not be expressive with usual romantic filmy and poetic dialogues and feelings. But might use spiritual romantic dialogues, expressions and feelings which will be loved by those without any expectations from him and those in that Null state or divine state.

So, he will be a different and funny guy for an usual married life. If understanding and adaptability exists then the love and married life will go on well.

For usual possessive, craving, filmy romantic family life, there has to be little less secretions of neurotransmitters and high secretion of hormones related to needs of the body so that he craves for body needs, and shows all usual filmy and animals like lusty and lovey behaviours of running around the opposite sex, poetically expressing and adoring, helping and massaging etc.
So, the need and expectation based relationship will work out with him. He will crave, cry, feel little insecure and therefore would like to possess his source or property of emotional and physical support. The other person will feel loved, needs and expectations met etc.

If we have to live peacefully, happily, healthily with contentment and success with all sorts of relationships we have by default and by our own creations then WE HAVE TO ATTAIN NIRVANA STATE (not on bed!) IN LIFE AND LIVING!!...ONLY THEN IT IS POSSIBLE!!

hihihi...it is too late now and i have to sleep...otherwise my routine will get affected...more insight into love, relationships, life, living, family, etc later...bye...good night...

i only hope all these give more insight into analyzing yourselves and others around in your relationships and to live harmoniously!!

peacefully yours...rams