Marriage is a kind of 'possession' like property...so, it is entering a cage...only size of cage is different...go in if you agree!!...else don't go in...otherwise you will walk out one day!!

Dear all...many things can be written about marriage, 'The Ring Master' of life!!!...i thought i will write about one of them...

There are soooooooooooooo many things inside it when we decide to go ahead with a marriage and living with a person as husband or wife.

Only when we are not knowing about all these and not thinking about them and taking a decision based on fantasies or deciding to go ahead without any conscious thinking and taking decision in a 'floating mood', then the problems come and we start thinking the following and land up in front of the doors of a counselor!!

1. What a bloody mistake i did of getting married. I think i am unfit for this kind of traditional living.

2. Why i got married?...I was happy before marriage. hmmm...i have taken a wrong decision.

3. why did i select this person or agree to my parents to marry this person?...wofff...i made a wrong decision!

Marriage is a kind of 'possession'...i.e possessing a person!!...the freedom is restricted and defined, at body level or mind level or both...though many spouses give freedom to their husband/wife, but is limited, on legal or moral or social grounds. Only the size of the cage is different.

If some one thinks he or she does not want any kind of restriction, then they are unfit for a married life.

The cage size can be discussed and defined between both of them before marriage. If acceptable then they can go ahead with that marriage.

rams