Dear all...THIS POST IS FOR ALL...'ANYTHING USED SHOULD BE MAINTAINED'...e.g house, bike etc which are regularly used, are to be maintained by regular servicing and periodic, planned preventive maintenance.
The same thing goes well with PEOPLE and RELATIONSHIPS also!!!
If we are using them for our needs and expectations, for pleasure and happiness, for peace and contentment, for emotional support and success, for all sorts of help...then we have to maintain the people and our relationships also by spending focused time with complete attention, energy, emotions, money, heart, brain, body, love, passion, compassion etc.
When we buy, the initial cost, market study, what to buy etc takes time, energy, emotions and involves lots of costs!
When it is new it actually requires less maintenance costs but regular servicing like cleaning, polishing, shining, filling the gas or petrol, filling air with words, emotions and behaviours is important.
As they age, they need more maintenance in terms of complete attention, time, money, energy, love etc.
We can not take them for granted any time!!
You can not ride on the two legged bikes without servicing them. They will not run. More you service, more they run, happily run!!
People and relationships are to be regularly serviced, you can not leave gaps, to keep them going, strong and steady!!
Otherwise lubrication will go, friction will start and increase, temperatures will rise, sound will come, vibrations will increase, balance will go and they will deteriorate over a period of time, corrode, erode and one day will fail and result in irreparable damage or get separated and go off...mentally or bodily or both...or time, emotions, energy spent will become less and less day by day and vanish totally, you don't know when and where you lost the bike. or who stole it!!...you can not complain to police also, because here, once you lose, it is lost forever, because some one else would have stolen the bike and must be servicing and maintaining well!!
Periodic Planned Preventive Maintenance and day to day servicing is important. Failure or break down maintenance after the damage or accident or crash (like aircraft) is of no use.
If you don't service, you don't know when they will stop or ditch, at the right moment they will not move even a millimeter...and you will feel screwed up nicely and start thinking about why did i buy this bike!...so, buy the bikes after lots of thinking. Some of the bikes may be requiring less maintenance but all two legged bikes require good maintenance, but daily servicing is common for all bikes and cost involved (all type of costs) depend upon how much you ride and use!!
Some people afford buying them by paying the initial cost but are unable to maintain, even if their mind wants to own the bike. Some people are interested only in buying and riding but not maintaining. Some people are interested to maintain but do not find time, energy, emotions, moods, money etc to maintain or service. Some people ride on other's bikes also and leave quietly. Because of all these issues some do not buy bikes or house. They ride on themselves or stay outside in hotels/rented accommodations where housekeeping and everything is looked after, and live their life. They feel eating outside in a hotel is cheaper than owning a house and maintaining it, travelling in a bus is much cheaper and safer than owning a bike, because riding a beautiful bike today in the heavy greedy traffic is too difficult. Also keeping it or owning it possessively as an owner is also too difficult as too many thieves around, and we also boast, create an identity by showing and posting the pics in social media etc saying 'see my new 2000 cc foreign bike!!' 'see my new two big bedroom independent villa!!' etc...some post the pics and videos of riding and grahapravesham also!!!
But whatever it is DON'T OWN A BIKE OR HOUSE IF YOU CAN NOT MAINTAIN AND SERVICE THEM!! IF YOU OWN THEN YOU WILL HAVE TO PAY A HEAVY PRICE IN YOUR LIFE FOR LIFE TIME!!...if you still buy then you may have to sell them in OLx, eBay, amazon etc for no cost and buy new people and new relationships at high costs and damages!!!...will you be able to maintain these new bikes or villas for ever?????
Instead, if you don't have any expectations and needs, the relationship always remains, no need of servicing and maintenance, no expenditure involved, no stresses and strains, no fights and no break-ups, because the bike is in its place doing its own things, but you are loving and happy because what gives you peace and happiness is not the bike, but your feelings, fantasies and thoughts of having relationship with that bike. So, this is ever permanent and there is no question of losing the bike!!...listen to this speech after 7th minute...to understand what i am saying...
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6L1MbL_azrc
peacefully yours...rams
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