Dear all...THIS POST IS FOR STUDENTS...
…CHALLENGES!!...yes, every person who is an achiever would have certainly come across several challenges in life and the individual must have faced them bravely and won!
Without facing challenges there is no way of achieving in this world!!
If some one says he or she has not faced any challenge in life then that person does not have any ‘goal’ and ‘self’ and would not have achieved anything different and big in life!!
No one on earth can never become an achiever without facing challenges bravely!
So, if you want to become an achiever, then be ready to face any kind of challenge on the way and improve your RESILIENCE. Otherwise you can not become an achiever!
More than boys it is the girls who have to be bloody minded to face the challenges in our culture if they want to become achievers!
Even a girl who lives a traditional family centric house wife life also faces many challenges in our culture as we see in the TV serials with most of the potent threats inside the family and relatives circles.
Challenges could be positive or negative.
Positive challenges are the strong push and high emotional (+ve or –ve) state of driving us towards the goal. E.g parents also want us to become achievers and they push us beyond our capacity or in a different direction. Here again we have to be strong enough to face that hard push by becoming fast, hard, resilient etc.
Negative challenges are that our parents, friends, relatives, siblings, teachers and friends are against our goals, passion, achievement motive and either some or all of them demotivate us.
In such cases we have to analyse as to how to tackle all the challenges ahead in a positive manner and win using LOVE as the weapon to fight.
we need to remember that happiness, physical-mental-social health, peace, contentment are the basics of life and any person or relationship working against these need to be kept away from our day to day living towards achieving our goals.
Compromises and sacrifices with people and relationships on our goals will only make us to get diverted or lose the attention/focus and not to reach the goal and become yet another ‘born-eat-sleep-reproduce-rear-die’ person. We can not become achievers.
What we have to do is to think about how to achieve our goals without compromises and sacrifices and at the same time the stake holders (all those people listed above) are happy and supportive. If not possible then don't hesitate to say 'bye-bye' to them and their relationship. If you are unable to say then just remain away from them physically, emotionally and without any communication.
Time and Nature are best healers and if your goals are genuine for self, family and humanity, then one day they will change and join with you to support your mission and passion in life.
Though, having needs and expectations from others, is negative, our culture has groomed our stake holders to depend on us for their happiness, growth and peace. So, we need to think about meeting them to whatever possible extent without compromising our goals.
In general the girls face following challenges with their parents in being an achiever:-
1. Selecting a school or college or course for studies
2. Selecting a job/career path
3. Selecting the place of work…i.e within the city of parental living, within the state, within the country or outside the country, which country etc
4. Selecting their life mate
5. Deciding when to marry
2. Selecting a job/career path
3. Selecting the place of work…i.e within the city of parental living, within the state, within the country or outside the country, which country etc
4. Selecting their life mate
5. Deciding when to marry
The parents and other stake holders who have a big agenda for self or family through you will use all strategies like threat of suicidal attempts etc to change your decisions. But you need to handle them well with LOVE.
So, the crux is…
1. If you want to achieve something different and big, fightout and win the challenges with LOVE.
2. Every one who is an achiever must have faced lots of challenges in life and the person must have won all of them (either +vely or –vely) without compromises and sacrifices.
3. Your altitude of achievement depends on your attitude, endurance (how long you fight), vigorousness to fight the challenges.
2. Every one who is an achiever must have faced lots of challenges in life and the person must have won all of them (either +vely or –vely) without compromises and sacrifices.
3. Your altitude of achievement depends on your attitude, endurance (how long you fight), vigorousness to fight the challenges.
here is a link where some girls tell you the challenges they faced and how they won them and became achievers in life...
peacefully yours...rams
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